A Month For Marriage

Just to update you quickly on my "Happiness Project", April was a real flop so I am rolling it over into May. With out trip to San Francisco and a broken printer (which meant a very delayed resolution chart to keep myself in check), I just wasn't on top of things.

Marriage is the topic of the month. I feel quite happy about the order of things so far. Like I mentioned, taking care of myself physically really set me up for success with everything else since I had more energy. Then getting myself into a good place spiritually prepared me to be better at whatever was to follow. Marriage comes next, because when things aren't going smoothly there or I am upset with my spouse, I literally cannot function. Especially as a parent.

Here are the goals:

• Quite nagging
• No snapping
• Leave things unsaid
• Take time to be silly
• Don't expect praise
• Give proofs of love
• Weekly questions- this great idea I got from todaysletters

Previous goals are continuing strong. Definitely not perfect, of course. I've been bad lately at getting to bed before 11, and staying on the computer a bit later then 9:30 (like right now)- which is important because it gives me a headache.